Spanking Children Causes Sexual Problems Later in Life

Children whose parents spank them or use other aggressive methods to punish them are more likely to have sexual problems as teenagers or adults, according to a research made by a University of Hampshire domestic abuse expert.

Professor Murray Straus concludes that children who are spanked have a much higher risk in adulthood to verbally or physically coerce a partner into having sex, to have unprotected sex and to have masochistic sex.

Other studies have also been made, showing the link between spanking and physical violence, but Professor Straus’ study is the first to link spanking with sexual behaviour.

"My underlying motive was to bring this to the attention of parents and of more people, in the hope it will help continue the decrease in the use of corporal punishment," Straus said, according to The Associated Press.

Straus first conducted a study of this kind in the 90’s, when he asked 207 students at three colleges if they had ever been spanked as children, and whether they were ever aroused by masochistic sex. He concluded that the students who had been spanked in childhood were almost twice as likely to practice masochistic sex.

Straus declared he would like pediatricians to warn against spanking. He thinks parents should be made aware about the obvious harm that physical violence does to children later in life.

“Parents should never, ever spank because, although it does work, it’s no better than non-hitting methods that don’t have harmful side effects. If there was an FDA for spanking, they’d say use an alternative that doesn’t have harmful side effects,”he said.




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Obfiscating abuse
By Jason Reeves, (2008-08-08 10:25)
I'm heartbroken by Straus' presentation earlier this year. I think he's a great scholar on the impact of all sorts of domestic violence issues, especially the notion of hitting kids to stop them from hitting! He has many compelling points, and is still a hero for many of us working on domestic violence issues.

But, damn, Murray, you really didn't do your emancipatory homework on sexual expression when it comes to BDSM (Bondage-Discipline, Dominance-Submission, Sadism-Masochism) communities, or, for that sake, the closeted kinky people who are reading USA today! In your own 2001 study, which I presume you're basing your findings on, over 60% of the college population admits to some form of 'masochistic' sex. Does a pathology exist if it is found in over half of your population? Please.

What DOES exist is a lingering stigmatization of the eroticization of power during consensual, adult intimate exchange (i.e., BDSM sexual identity), furthered by your, frankly, weak and ill-researched knowledge of the burgeoning body of research on kink (see Sadomadochism: Powerful Pleasures, 2006; and Safe, Sane and Consensual, 2007).

If we're really going to do anything to stop the epidemic of domestic violence, we need to be clear on our terms. Lambasting kink should not be part of it. This is an old, un-empirical conjecture indicative of unscientific, psychoanalytic thought that brought you such great hits as "penis envy", "homosexual disturbance" and "insanity due to ejaculation outside the vagina". What millennium are we in?

The fact that the media's summation of the February presentation--with its nexus of furthering the stigmatization of BDSM identity--has now been broadcast across USA Today, Science Blog, and other important avenues. This shows how little we have come in articulating safe, sane, and consensual sex amongst adults. I can only wonder what this means for the people suffering under real domestic power inequalities; we have obfuscated to the point of the profane.
What's the big deal?
By Hekele, (2008-05-15 13:54)
When carrying out the survey with these children, how would you know which children have been spanked and which children have been seriously spanked over any little thing like some sonseless parents do who just can't be bothered? Most children have been spanked but not all will have these fetishes.

I read something a while ago that claimed children who adored 'Chitty Chitty Bang Bang' as a child and liked the leading female actress --would develop a fetish for women with a giant clockwork key attached to their back which they would wind-up before having sex with. Some people have fetishes about being in diapers.
Confused about kink; strengths and problems
By Gwiman, (2008-03-13 08:16)
Straus is a hero in drawing scientific evidence for promoting families free of violence. I applaud him for that. But he is no expert around sexual kink. The evidence he presents that adults who were spanked as kids are now slightly--slightly--more likely to want it in their adult beds is dwarfed by the much larger numbers of the population that like to get this respective behavioral groove on. Psychology, despite it's important merits, has derailed itself in ignoring the growing body of social science literature that clearly indicates that sexual kink--spanking, bondage, whatever--is not only NOT psychologically unhealthy, but a common--if less frequent--form of human desire (check out 'Sadomasochism: Powerful Pleasures'--from the Journal of Homosexuality, 50, 2006).

Straus' failure to recognize the oppression of social stigma against BDSM folks is yet another example of the hobbling of psychology to do the work it was chartered to do; promote human wellness. Sorry, but most BDSM folks are loving the experience, sans the oppressive stigma of social, religious, and academic bigots. I still love you, Murray.
Raising A Demon
By Geminate, (2008-03-02 21:31)
Without corporal punishment it's been proven that children become spoiled, narcissistic sociopaths, who sooner or later in life usually commit fratricide, patricide, matricide or homicide. They also believe themselves to be highly intelligent and usually have a perfection complex. When the world disproves that they are geniuses and they realize that they are imperfect, they usually begin to have problems with depression that frequently leads to suicide. Many do not accept the fact that they are average and live in a world of self delusion where they see themselves as superior to everyone in every way; they are clinically insane egomaniacs. Control and manipulation is achieved through constant lying and making it known to everyone that they are important and that they are needed in all situations in life. They find authority figures despicable and will never relinquish authority, fighting, hating even killing those that would tell them what to do. If you want to raise up a demon, a devil, an incredibly evil child and adult, then forgo corporal punishment. Just remember to sleep with a gun and to lock your bedroom door at night, they are thinking of killing you, incessantly.
Erotic Spanking
By Susan, (2008-06-12 07:50)
So many kids were spanked growing up that it would be foolish to imply they all have sexual problems. Maybe if they were whipped naked, or whipped on the genitals. But that is rare and is already illegal.
Spanking Children Causes Sexual Problems Later in Life
By Willy Billy, (2008-03-02 18:31)
PRO-FESTUS MURRAY STRAUSS, YOUR A FRUITCAKE NUT!!!
YOUR PARENTS MUST OF SPANKED YOU TOO MANY TIMES UPSIDE THE HEAD WHEN YOU WERE LITTLE!! THE ONLY WAY A CHILD COULD BE HARMED SEXUALLY IS BY SOMEONE LIKE YOU SPANKING THEM NAKED WITH OTHER SEXUAL PERVERTED THOUGHTS ON THEIR MIND AS THEY DID IT TO THAT CHILD!! GET HELP YOU SICK PERVERT!!!
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Erotic Spanking
By Susan, (2008-06-12 07:50)
So many kids were spanked growing up that it would be foolish to imply they all have sexual problems. Maybe if they were whipped naked, or whipped on the genitals. But that is rare and is already illegal.

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